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Greetings from theVermont Senior Griffes Family
Christmas 2008Merry Christmas, Everyone!It seems time just flies by and we realize you haven't heard from us again. We can't even remember why the cards were never sent last year - but this is a new year and we thought we would drop a brief note. NEVTEC is quite busy - Praise the Lord! We are grateful we can keep all our employees employed and pray enough work comes in to keep it that way. Len is currently in NH at the Balsaams with five men on a five-day job. The Balsaams has many kitchens and we are replacing and renovating most of them, I believe. Next week brings a whole week of work at the Newport Correctional Center. Donna is still teaching first grade at United Christian Academy. This year brings a first - all boys and only one girl in class. Emily will be student teaching beginning in January - grade 2 in a Christian school, and grade 4 in a public school. She will graduate on May 15th after five long years with two bachelor's degree - one in Bible and one in Elementary Education. Dr. David Jeremiah will be the commencement speaker. She loves working with children. If you hear of any job openings for the fall, please let us know. She has had some health issues the last couple of years with her cystic fibrosis, but she is holding her own. Becky is in her third year of college at Lancaster Bible College in PA and has discovered tennis. Having never played before, she joined the college's new tennis team this past fall and has grown to love the sport. She is unsure of her future and is no longer a music education major. Her major is listed as women's ministries, and this semester was supposed to help her with some decisions. We'll know more over semester break. Becky spent 10 days last May touring Spain with the college's choir singing and ministering in Spanish. It was an experience she will not soon forget. Josh is a senior in high school and will graduate the first Saturday in June. He is directing the school's top handbell choir in the absence of the "teacher/director" as she is only here twice a month. He seems to be doing well at it;; he certainly enjoys the responsibility. He is our church pianist and the school's pianist for the worship team and chapel services. he has been accepted at Eastern Nazarene College in Quincy, MA and Olivet Nazarene University in Bourbonnais, IL, but he is not sure where he'll be next fall. College is such a financial burden. He thinks he will major in business. His health has been good, although he experienced a hospital stay the summer before last. His breathing functions are really good, and we pray they stay that way for a long time. Oh, yes, after we wrote two years ago, we added a black lab puppy to our family. I guess it might have been a mid-life crisis, because I said I would never have an animal in our new house. She came to live with us on January 8, 2007. She was two years old on November 3rd and is a loveable addition, although she sheds like crazy. We are always vacuuming black fur balls. Her name is Lindsay, and her bark is enough to make the UPS man shake, but she wouldn't hurt anyone. Doorbells send her on a barking frenzy to the door (even if the doorbell is on the TV), but as soon as she sees a person, her tail is wagging. She is an attention sponge. We pray you are all well, and celebrating our Savior's birth this season. Love, Len, Donna, Emily, Becky, Josh
Catchin' up with the Cuzzins - 2008The Griffes Family - Summer 2008 - with Jean and Paul Gardner and Aunt Lois(Click on a picture to see it full-size.)
Christmas Greetings from the
Vermont Family Griffes – 12/07/07
In the frigid and snowy Northeast Kingdom this chilly December
day, we are well and warm. This has
been a very busy year; our freezers are full, the pantry is well stocked and we
have fuel to keep us warm until Spring.
God has been good to us in so many ways.
We especially thank Him for our family and friends, our home and good
health (at 76 we are still able to care for ourselves and be busy every day).
Our caring Lord has provided all our needs and many wants.
In just a few days we will be celebrating Christmas, His birthday. Twenty of our family were home for Thanksgiving.
Beulah again did a great job as Master Thanksgiving Chef.
Three of our six children (the ones who live in Vermont) were here with
all their children; Sheryl and Gary, Len and Donna and Sharon and CJ.
We now have 40 descendants in all.
Shirley and Jack live in the Bahamas.
Philip and Nicole, with their three daughters, live in Pennsylvania and
Emily and Rich, with their son and daughter, live in Jackson, Michigan. Mike and Debbie and Jay and Kim had Thanksgiving together in
Portsmouth, New Hampshire. Jay had
spent most of this year in Baghdad while Kim, Alexander and Kelsie kept the home
fires burning. It was a great help
for Kim to have Debbie close by.
Mike spends most of his time at the Pentagon, so they have sold their house in
Portsmouth and are in the process of moving to Virginia.
Daughter Caroline is in the Army Medical School in Washington (state).
Son David is in the Navy, soon to be training in Great Lakes, Illinois,
and son James is living and working in Portsmouth. Beulah is still working three days a week at our business and
Don keeps busy at home. When
one of our grandchildren was asked by her teacher to write about her
grandparents, she wrote, “My grandmother works every day and my grandfather
stays home and doesn’t do anything.”
Sheryl’s three youngest went fishing with Don last summer.
He got them all rigged up, each with a pole; and before Don could get his
pole ready, the fish began to bite.
All he had time to do was to take their fish off and bait their hoods.
They caught enough for several meals. We made three trips to Michigan this year and we will be going
again in a few days as Ruth Torrey, Don’s mother’s sister, passed away this
morning. She was 88 and has been ill
for several years. She was looking
forward to Heaven and seeing her husband, mom and dad and her two brothers and
four sisters who have already made the trip.
Aunt Jo (Mandeville) Austin (96) and Aunt Edna (Griffes) Septrion (91)
are the last left of that generation. Aunt Jo is 96 and is still going strong.
She still drives some and goes out to dinner and meetings several times a
week. Beulah’s sister, Lois, turned
90 this Fall and she still drives every day.
The family had a big surprise party for her.
She is still living in her own home.
Beulah has two brothers, Clayton in Seattle, Washington and Raymond in
Reading, Massachusetts. Her oldest
sister, Ruth Metcalf, passed away last Summer at 93.
Longevity must be in our genes, so we look forward to this Christmas and
many more. Love, Beulah and Don
January 14, 2007 Dear Family, I just got off the treadmill. I walked half a mile in ten minutes. It is doctor's orders that I exercise. In October, I had severe pressure in my chest and aching in my arms. In ended up at Dartmouth Hitchcock Hospital in Hanover, NH. They did an angiography and discovered some plaque (60%) in one blood vessel, but not enough to inhibit the blood flow. So they thought I had a blood clot. Thus, I am on medication, diet and exercise. I feel fine now except for reaction to some of the medication. I noticed in my RR letter of 05/18/06, I had said that Jay was waiting to hear about deployment to Iraq. As I write this, Jay is in Kuwait and will soon be in Baghdad. He will be there for a year. It will be hard for his family. He is a supply officer and will be working in one of Saddam's palaces. Jay is a Commander in rand and is one rank behind his brother, Mike, who is Captain. Please pray for Jay and his family. I received Adele's November 30th letter and Raymond's December 4th letter a couple of weeks before Christmas and couldn't find time to write, so the letters that were lost caught up before I wrote this letter. This is one time that it was good to be late. Adele, in the picture of Lilla's great grand children's daughters, Katelyn looks scared. They are all beautiful. Len as gone to Pennsylvania to take Emily and Becky back to college. He left early this morning and is driving back tonight. There is a bad storm coming. I'm hoping he doesn't run into it. Emily and Joshua did not have a very good report when they went to the CF (cystic fibrosis) clinic last week. Josh has lost weight and Emily's numbers were low. She will be going to the clinic near the college this week. Sharon has two children in college also. Sarah is in Illinois and Christopher is in Massachusetts. Sudoku looks too complicated to me. I'm sure it is fun to solve the puzzle. Don and I are still involved with political work. he is vice-chair of the Finance Committee of the State Republican Party. Our state chairman has quit and is working for John McCain's campaign. So the vice-chair of the party has asked Don to chair a meeting to work on a budget and fundraising. It sure is good to have the nieces' letters in the RR. It would be good if Nancy could write. I know she has a busy schedule, but she probably would do it. We enjoyed all your letters and are glad the RR is flying again. Love, Beulah and Don
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Christmas, 2005
This is our 75th year of our earthly journey, and it's been a year unlike any before. If I were to write even half of what comes to mind, this would be volumes instead of a page or two. Let me share some of the highlights.
We began 2005 by falling on the ice, New Years Eve, our 43rd anniversary. I tore up five tendons in my right shoulder, which required surgery and eight months to heal. Also, my heart needed a tune up in April and they installed another stent. My wonderful wife's eye showed minimal improvement after several more procedures. But her good eye is doing very well, praise the Lord. In October, I fell and messed up my ankle, but everything is working much better now. My cousin, Jaye Torrey, came from Michigan in May, when Beulah had her major eye surgery and had to lay face down for two weeks. Jaye stayed until August to help with meals, chores, yard and garden work. The helped the old folks a lot.
During all this we managed to raise a garden, pick berries, fill our freezers, and harvest 200 pounds of honey from our two swarms of bees. I was able to take several grand-kids fishing and spent some time with them swimming in our brook. Our two dozen plus grand-kids range from ages 3 to 35. On what blessings God has provided us!
NEVTEC, our family ventilation business, had its best year ever and we have just moved to our new site, a big new steel building on 50 + acres. Son, Len, is doing a great job with the business and everything else he does. He was elected our county Republican state committeeman in October, and now he is on the Vermont State Republican Committee. Last year, just before Christmas, Len and his family moved into their beautiful new home. Emily is doing well in her second year of college. She wants to be a teacher like her mom. Becky will graduate with honors next June and expects to have a substantial music scholarship to Houghton College. Josh is a freshman at UCA and is a great helper to his dad.
Sheryl and Gary are very busy with work, family, church and school responsibilities. Gary works full time for NEVTEC. They both work at United Christian Academy (UCA). Gary was able to get a moose permit and bagged a young moose, which is excellent flavor, much like good beef. They have two young sons, Calvin and Cole, at home, and two daughters, Kristin and Megan, in school. Calvin loves to fish. He caught a 16" brook trout last summer and was sure excited.
Our son, Jay, is a Commander in the Navy Reserves and works full time at the Portsmouth New Hampshire Navy Shipyard, besides monthly duty in Syracuse. Kim is home-schooling Kelsie and Alexander. Mike is still working in Washington on Homeland Security and other things. He gets home every couple weeks. Debby and their son, James, are at home in Portsmouth where Jim is attending college. Caroline is in the third year of Army ROTC at Cornell, and David is in his second year of Navy ROTC at Penn. State.
Sharon's youngest, Sarah, graduates in June. Chris is in college at ENC, and Jennifer is managing a sporting goods and clothing store in Morrisville. CJ is farming and is still in partnership with his brother, Allen, in the lumber business. They were able to spend Thanksgiving week in Florida. We still had 22 of our family at home for a scrumptious Thanksgiving feast prepared by master chef, B. E. Griffes, my wonderful wife. There would be 41 in all if everyone made it.
Shirley and Jack are still in the Bahamas. We hope to visit them one of these days. Philip and Nicole and their daughters, Sydney, Devin and Payton, are still in Pennsylvania. We had a great visit with Emily and Rich and our great grand-kids, Morgan and Keagan, in August.
In August, we were in Michigan to celebrate Aunt Edna Septrion's 90th birthday. She is my father's sister. We also visited my mom's sisters, Aunt Jo Austin (who is is 94) and Aunt Roth Torrey (who is 86). They are both doing quite well. We were able to attend the Buckley Old Engine Show, a gathering of well over 20,000. I played harmonicas two evenings with a group of about 20 other musicians.
We pray for our family every day. They are so precious. Christmas is such a great time for family. But there are those "grinch" types that are attempting to steal Christmas and its true meaning. Never before in my recollection has there been so many fighting against Christmas.
As I look to my right, I see a shelf of old books, may written in the 1800s. They set my thoughts a-whirl. Those old authors were so wise. I have a very old edition of Dicken's Christmas Carol; what a great story! There is Dicken's interesting account of his long visit to America in the 1840s and his observations and warnings. Then there is De Toqueville's account of his tour of early America. They both warned us of problems ahead with slavery, crime, Indian affairs, pollution, careless talk, entertainment and the media, - warnings that proved accurate.
There is a grandmother's old history book printed in 1879, and her diary of 1890. Her friend, Tilly, wrote: "Guard well thy thoughts. Our thoughts are heard in heaven." Then there are all kinds of poetry and stories. Those writings have so much quality and truth, a Godly character that is lacking so many today. There's Will Gardner's, Beulah's father, old dog-eared, well-worn Bible, - the Book for all ages. There are several old hymn books of long forgotten hymns and carols. We have lost so much of the real meaning of Jesus' birthday celebration, Christmas.
A wise man once said that America is great because America is good; and when America ceases to be good, it will cease to be great. America is on the brink of being overwhelmed with evil and anti-Christian sentiments. The Christ of Christmas can get us back on track if we follow Him. Most of our family is well aware as to the true meaning of Christmas because we believe that Jesus is who he said he is, and his spirit can lead us through these rough times if we follow.
Last week the Pope said that Christmas is too commercialized. When driving, I see so many decorations and lights. I can't help but wonder if the ones who put them up for us to enjoy really understand the real meaning of their display. Jesus is the reason for the season. Celebrating the arrival of Jesus, the son of God, to this world so we can know salvation and have eternal life in a place that is so grand it is beyond our comprehension. We expect to go there one of these days and hope you will come too. See you there, if not before. WE LOVE YOU.
Beulah and Don Griffes
May 25, 2005
Dear Family,
I received the welcome round robin letters a few days ago and was able to read them all right away since I was confined to a special chair. I had an operation on my eye on May 2nd. The doctor made a small slit in my retina so he could remove some thick fluid that has been under my retina since it was detached in August. After he got the fluid out, he lasered the hole and put a gas bubble in to hold the retina so it could heal. For two weeks I have had to keep my head and eyes looking down at the floor so the bubble could do its work. We rented a special chair (I call it my torture chair) to sit in during the day with my head resting on pads. The pads were placed so I could look down and read or write. I even could watch TV with a special mirror. At night I had similar pads to place my head in extended over the bed. I had to lay on my stomach to sleep. Needless to say, I am glad I am done with this positioning. I am sure I will be able to see better with that fluid out, but I probably won't regain all my sight, especially detail. When my retina detached, the macula (enables to see detail) was detached; and when that happens, a person very seldom regains all the sight.
Our home has been like a nursing home lately. In December, Don fell on the ice and ripped some muscles in his shoulder. Three weeks ago he had an operation on that and hasn't been able to do much. He still is in a lot of pain. He no doubt will have to go for a lot of therapy soon. We go to his doctor tomorrow.
Don's cousin came from Michigan two weeks ago to help us, since both of us are incapacitated. She has been getting all the meals and doing some outdoor work.
I haven't been to work for about three weeks. There will be plenty to do when I go Tuesday. We are taking a big step and having a new building built on the land we purchased a few years ago. It is quite scary, but we need a bigger building because we are very busy and need to hire more people. Our building we are in now, that we rent, doesn't have room for any more employees. The building contractor has already started to build.
Len and four of our employees are working this weekend at South Portland, Maine Hospital. They are installing four big hoods at the hospital. They were having problems. The head nurse in the emergency room was about ready to quit because they were making too much noise putting in the hoods. Tin workers do make a lot of noise.
It is good to read all of your letters, though we all seem to have a lot of health problems. Clayton and Gerry, you seem to have your share. Have you had your knee replacement yet? I hope and pray that it is successful. Gerry, did the doctor determine what was wrong with your foot?
Donna, Len's wife, has to have an operation on her knee as soon as school is out. She has been on crutches for awhile.
Raymond, I am not real patient when Don does genealogy; but most of the time he doest it here at home, so I do other things. Right now, Don's cousin, Jaye, and he are doing genealogy downstairs. Jaye is Mormon and has access to Mormon records, which are very complete.
I have an old-time saying. "You know you are old when you bend over to tie your shoes and you say, 'what else can I do while I am down here?'"
Ruth, if you, Greg and Geri come to Vermont, I hope we will be here. We are going to Michigan about June 10th to take Don's cousin back.
Today, Sunday, Lois and Dawnita had dinner with us after church. We enjoyed their company. Dawnita seems to be doing well. Se is on the go a lot and very independent.
Dixie, did all the bulbs your sister-in-law planted come up? I think spring flowers are so beautiful and refreshing after the long winter. We have lots of tulips and daffodils that blossomed. They are beautiful. They are late blossoming this year because we are about two weeks behind on warm weather. It is still cold today; the high is 50 degrees.
Sheryl, Gary, and their four active children came for supper last night. We enjoyed them a lot. Megan, Calvin and Cole each had a microphone that Grandpa let them use and they were singing and carrying on with no inhibitions. It was fun listening to them and watching them. Kristin has a history project to do on the country of Ireland. Grandpa (Don) was getting information and pictures off the internet for her. It it amazing the information you can get on any subject.
I 'd better close now and send this on its way. We are going to church in Newport tonight.
Love, Beulah and Don
January 22, 2005
Dear Family,
I have just reread all the letters again and enjoyed them all. Again, I am very late answering the Round Robin. I guess you will have to start calling me "the late Mrs. Griffes." That is what we used to call Sheryl, "the late Miss Griffes." She used to be late a lot. She has improved considerably; in fact, she amazes me with all she accomplishes. She has a very busy schedule with four children, Kristin 10, Megan 8, Calvin 4, Cole 2, and husband, Gary, to take care of. She works at U.C.A., the kids' school, three afternoons a week taking care of kids until their parents pick them up.
Len and Donna and family are building a new house a short way from where they live now. It has been a big task and they will be glad to move in shortly. They live on Airport Road in Newport now and there is a huge dump there. The dump has bought a lot more land and is expanding so all the neighbors made agreements with the dump corporation to sell their houses to it. Their new house is beautiful and is near their school and our business, NEVTEC LTD.
You asked what caused my detached retina. I hit my head very hard when I raised my head up and hit a shelf. The next day I couldn't see anything out of that eye. However, the doctor didn't think that caused the detachment. He thought that it had been coming on for awhile. There are two causes of detachment: cataract operations: cataract operations (which I have had) and old age (which I am)! Ha! Ha!
So, I guess I was destined to have a detachment. I have had several procedures, including laser treatments, several times, a buckle put on my eye, and a steroid shot in my eye. So far my eye is better, but I can't see clearly enough to read. It may improve over the next several months, and it may not. I have to go back to the doctor in a couple of weeks. He wants to keep an eye on it to see if it is improving.
True to form, I am writing this letter on the road. We are in Michigan and right now I am sitting at a desk in the public library. Don and his cousin, Jaye, are doing some genealogy here, so I thought it would be a good time to write the Round Robin. It is so much easier writing the RR away from home, because at home there is always so much to do. We left home last Monday and arrived in Columbus, Ohio on Tuesday. Lois came with us and she is staying with Ruth and Ruth Anne while we are in Michigan. We stayed overnight with Geri and Greg. We will be going back to Columbus to pick Lois up and return home, probably a week from today.
Ruth is real happy with Ruth Anne. She has a very nice condo with a piano, which they enjoy. Geri and Greg live a few miles from Ruth Anne. They have a very nice home, which they bought a couple of years ago. Geri has a big grand piano that Greg bought for her when she finished her doctorate in music. We had a great beautiful mini-concert - Geri on piano, Greg on horns. We enjoyed being with them, if only briefly.
Emily (Len and Donna's daughter) is in Lancaster Bible College in Lancaster, PA. This is her first year. She got grants and scholarships, both of which she worked hard for, - enough to pay for most of her first year. She is planning to be a teacher. When she was home on Christmas vacation, she substitute taught at the school where she went. Donna was sick a couple of days and Emily filled in for her too.
It is nice to have Lois close by. She sold her home in Florida and is doing well dealing with the cold weather and snow. She even drives in the snow on Sunday and picks up Dawnita for church.
Dixie, that apple dumpling made from your apple sounded delicious. Your husband must have felt special. We have an apple tree in our yard and I think it has only produced three or four apples in the many years that we have had it. Of course, it has been abused - like the snow plow hitting it, etc.
Clayton and Gerry, your granddaughter is adorable. I'm sure you aren't spoiling her! Glad that Gerry's knee was so successful. Don has a lot of problems with arthritis, so he can sympathize with you, Clayton. He takes a lot of aspirin and Tylenol.
We miss Nita so much. As one of her friends told me when I saw her after Nita died - she said - "I miss her every day." We went to see Nita two or three times a week, and it is a blessing that she passed away because she was so miserable. She isn't miserable anymore. She is happy beyond our comprehension in Heaven. We wouldn't wish her back. We have so many pleasant memories.
Ruth, we are so glad that we were able to come to your 90th birthday and felt blessed that we saw Henry just a few days before he died. We are glad you are happy with Ruth Anne in Columbus. Your daughters are good to you.
Irene, we miss Nita's letter very much, but are so happy to have your interesting letter.
Lilla, I hope you are feeling better. Sometimes the side effects are worse than the disease. Walking on stilts like Bryan was doing is quite an accomplishment. It would take good balance. Raymond, did you have a pacemaker put in?
Enclosed is a sympathy card from Lyle and Edith Cargill. After Nita died, she asked me to pass it on to the Family. I am not putting this letter in the mail. I am going to hand it to Ruth.
Love to all,
Don and Beulah
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Christmas, 2004
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2004
is waning fast; in only two weeks, 2004 will be history. This has been
a bittersweet year. God has provided all our needs and some wants and
helped us meet each day's challenges. But we were very short on time;
of course, we are older, slower, "achier" and need extra patience with each
other. We both feel that the other has a hearing problem. Could
be because we are past three score and thirteen and Father time's "a
pick-en" our pockets. We made it to Florida last Spring and Don had a great time fishing with our friend, Bob Blair. Beulah helped her sister, Lois, pack for her final trip back to Vermont. After 20+ winters in Florida, she has decided it's Vermont all year round. |
Beulah had a detached retina in
early August and has had several surgeries. It may be several more
months before we know how successful the treatments have been. She
still has significant difficulty seeing. We plan on going to Michigan right after Christmas for the first time in a year. Our last trip to Michigan was last December for Beulah's sister, Ruth's, 90th birthday celebration. Her husband, Henry Metcalf, passed away three days after we were there. Beulah's sister, Nita Ames, passed away in her sleep in October from ALS. What a trooper she was! A great spirit and a big smile right to the end! She couldn't talk, walk, eat or breathe without assistance. Everyone who visited her came away with her blessing on them and her prayers following them. What a gracious lady! Read more about Beulah's side of the family in the Gardner Newsletter on line at www.gardnernews.org . |
What a great family God has given us. We pray daily for them all. We had three grandchildren graduate with high honors from high school in June, and we attended all three graduations. They are: Mike and Debbie's son, David Edward Griffes, with a full four-year Navy ROTC scholarship to Penn State; Sharon and C.J. Manchester's son, Christopher, to ENC where his folks and Grandma Beulah all attended; and Len and Donna's daughter, Emily, to Lancaster Bible College where she is preparing to be a teacher liker her mom. Our friend and Vermont Governor, Jim Douglas, gave the commencement address for United Christian Academy's 2004 class where we have five of our grand-kids enrolled. |
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Our family business, NEVTEC, is
doing very well and working at full capacity. Son, Len, is CEO and
doing a great job. We plan to build a new shop in the spring.
Len and Donna are building a new home and expect to move in shortly after
Christmas. Sheryl and Gary are busy with four children. They are
custodians at UCA and Gary works full time at NEVTEC, besides being very
active at their church. Shirley and husband, Jack, who live near Nassau, made it through the hurricanes without much damage. It was interesting getting updates every few hours all during Francis as it passed them nearby. |
Our middle daughter, Sharon, and
hubby C.J., are dairy farmers and also operate a lumber business in Johnson,
Vermont. All of us are going there for Christmas. Their two
daughters, Sarah, a high school junior, and Jennifer, a working lady, are
living at home and Chris is home on Christmas break from college. They
are a very busy family. Sharon should have a vanity plate like her
Florida cousin that says "CHURCH LADY." Navy Captain Mike Griffes, our oldest son, has been much involved in the Pentagon and Homeland Security in Washington, D.C. Our youngest son, Navy Commander Jonathan, is E.O. of his duty station in Syracuse, New York. In Dover, New Hampshire, Jay's wife, Kim, and kids, Kelsie and Alexander, keep busy with school, motherhood and being a Navy Reserve wife. |
We kept busy with political
campaigns, as is our nature. To be politically successful in Vermont,
it takes a lot of hard work to elect republicans. This is the most
liberal state in the nation and the breeding grounds of the likes of
jumping Senator James Jeffords, screaming Governor Howard Dean,
and socialist U.S. Republican Bernie Sanders. Our team was Bush
for President, Jim Douglas for Governor, and Brian Dubie for Lieutenant
Governor, who all won; and, on down the ballot, we lost a few and won the
rest. Granddaughter Emily Griffes attended a Bush rally in
Pennsylvania near her school and we took Kelsie Griffes to a Bush rally in
New Hampshire. This was not a good year for gardens, but we managed quite well. We just didn't have as much to give away this year. The fishing wasn't that good either and neither was the deer hunting. We looked out the window a little while ago and saw 13 wild turkeys in the back yard. |
| One of the big highlights was when we took grand-kids, Kelsie and Alexander, to a big county fair in Hew Hampshire. It brought back memories of my grandparents taking me to the Jackson County Fair in Michigan. Another highlight was the several family gatherings, especially Thanksgiving. | God has certainly blessed us. I hope I live long enough to get our book, The Vermont Family Griffes, compiled. Some of our family history goes back nine plus centuries. If any of you want to give us a hand, come and spend a day, week or month. We would love to have you. |
But now is the time and this is
the season to celebrate the reason for all the festivities. Happy Birthday, Jesus! We love you! |
August 15, 2004
Dear Family,
First, I apologize for taking so long to write this letter. However, it will not be very long because I'm having trouble seeing to write. The reason is because I have a retinal detachment as of a couple of weeks ago. I have had a couple of procedures, including laser and injecting a bubble in my eye trying to push the retina back in place. I have had to lie on my side with my head elevated so the bubble is in the proper posture to work. I've been lying down this way for 13 days and nights and I am very tired of it. Don has prepared all the meals and done all the housework. (I could get used to that!) I am only supposed to get up to eat and to go to the bathroom. So, I can't write any more in this letter. I have some of my sight back and have to go back to the doctor in Burlington on Thursday.
Again, I'm sorry for the lateness of this letter.
Love, Beulah
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19 Laramee Road
Newport, VT 05855-8647
September 9, 2004
Dear Friends and Family,
I'm excited to announce to you the chance-of-a-lifetime opportunity I have for next summer. I'll be going on a missions trip to Panama City, Panama for two weeks with Brio Magazine - Focus on the Family.
The trip begins June 27 with training in Miami. We'll learn an evangelistic mime presentation, foreign language phrases and cultural sensitivity. From Miami, we'll fly into Panama.
Each day we'll minister to people through drama in parks, orphanages, schools, neighborhoods, and churches. After each drama presentation, we'll have the opportunity to share one-on-one with the nationals and lead them to Jesus with the help of volunteers from local churches. These local church representatives will get each new convert's name and address for follow-up and discipleship.
I believe that God has given me this great opportunity to see what other people believe, how they live, and to share the message of Jesus Christ with them. However, I must raise $2,250 plus a $30 departure tax. This will cover the cost of the international flight, lodging, three meals a day and transportation within the country. On top of that, I'll also need approximately $400 for my domestic flight to and from Miami. The cost of my passport is about $93 and I'll also need a couple of vaccinations. This is a total cost of close to $3,000.
I'd like to give you the opportunity to support me in this endeavor and to be a part of the life-changing experience, both to me and to the people of Panama. Please write any checks to Big World Ventures and send them to my home address included above. Your donation is tax deductible in the U.S. If you wish to make a donation to help defray the costs of my domestic flight, passport, and vaccinations, please make any checks out to Becky Griffes. These will not be tax deductible. Please pray for the folks of Panama to open their hearts to the love of God and for the lost to be saved.
For those of you who are unable to support me financially, your prayers are a much-needed support, too.
If you're willing and able to commit to either supporting me through prayer or supporting me financially, please reply as soon as possible. My first payment to Big World Ventures is due October 1st, with additional payments due the first of each month through March 1st. Thank you for helping me to serve the Lord in this way.
Venturing in faith,
Becky Griffes
Becky Griffes
802-334-2678
benjaminbunny_03@yahoo.com
Leesburg, Florida - November 9, 2003
Dear Family,
Well, here we are in warm, rather hot, Florida! Raymond, I didn't want to make a liar out of you concerning always writing the RR letter out of state. Don and I brought Lois to Florida about a week ago. She left her car in Vermont and Don helped her buy another Honda (1971) here. Lois is 86 now (as of November 6th) and we think she shouldn't be driving that distance by herself.
Don has gone fishing here with a friend and has caught several dozen crappie. They are very tasty fish. We have frozen several packages. The man he goes with has a nice big boat and all the fishing equipment needed. Don fished with six poles and Bob and eight poles.
Besides buying a car, Lois has bought a new refrigerator and stove which she needed badly. She has to stop spending. I guess we are a bad influence on her.
We have been to several yard sales and estate sales. Yesterday Don and I bought a beautiful bedroom set, - three dressers and a bedstead. The furniture we have is old and some was purchased from an auction at the old St. Johnsbury Hospital. We will be leaving for Vermont a week from tomorrow. It will be busy when we get home, catching up on work at the office. My desk will be piled high unless someone has done my work. Also, we will be having Thanksgiving at our house and I haven't prepared any food yet. I intended to make pies and put them in the freezer. I did make several pies, but I used them for a church function and for the annual Charleston Fire Department oyster dinner. We probably will have 22-27 people for Thanksgiving. Jay and Kim and their family will be coming to stay for the weekend, and possibly Mike, Deb and family, both from Portsmouth New Hampshire. Our three Vermont families will be coming. Jay has a new job working for a leasing company in Portsmouth. He only has a 15 minute drive to work, instead of the one hour and 15 minutes on his other job. Mike is done with his job in Washington for Homeland Security. He will be doing consulting work for IBM, which means quite a lot of traveling. I think the work involves homeland security.
November 16, 2003
It is now late Sunday afternoon and we will be leaving Florida tomorrow morning. We have to pack everything. I hope we can get it all in the car. We have all the furniture in and I think there will be room for me. I think we are in for a rude awakening. The weather is quite wintry in Vermont. They had six or eight inches of snow and high winds a couple of days ago. I am going to say "adios" and mail this letter from Florida.
Wishing everyone a great Thanksgiving and Christmas.
Love, Don & Beulah
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What a year. There was the ongoing, costly war against the terrorists, both here and overseas. Our "Homeland Security" restrained terrorists from further strikes on American soil, so far. There was the unprecedented, hateful campaign to destroy President Bush any way possible. There was increased persecution of Christians and attacks on our institutions of family and democracy that was shameful and unprecedented here in America. Through all this we still have freedom and well being beyond that of any other people in the World.
We were able to travel to Michigan three times, make several trips to see family in other states and go to Florida for three weeks in November, all without obtaining permits or reporting at state border checkpoints. We have had good health, raised a big garden and kept very busy with our church, family, business, and civic responsibilities. However, our well being and freedom has come at a tremendous cost. Jesus Christ, the true focus of Christmas, lived, suffered and died a horrible death for our freedom. He still enables us to be honest, compassionate and loving, even to our enemies. We are grateful and thank the Lord every day for the strength and blessings He gives us.
Our Godly ancestors suffered, endured and overcame extreme hardships and untimely deaths for our freedoms and our beloved nation. In our lifetime alone, millions have died needless deaths because of the rampant evil in the World. For many years our Nation's finest have made tremendous sacrifice to keep us free and extend that freedom to others.
As Christmas 2003 approaches, we think of those that have recently made that supreme sacrifice and will no longer be able to celebrate with family and friends on this earth. Our heart grieves for their loved ones and their families. Our prayers go up for those that have been wounded and have suffered hardship because of the eil ones. We pray for wisdom and compassion to bring "Peace on earth and Goodwill to all People of all Nations." We must pray for our leaders that God will give them wisdom and strength for their tasks.
In times like these we can still count our blessings. We first count our blessed family. There are 41 of us now, and all but Shirley and her family were able to get home for Thanksgiving. Our table was just under 23' long with 29 of us seated around it, to enjoy a great scrumptious 24 lb. turkey with all the trimmings. What a blessing that was! It could only have been better if Shirley and her family could have been with us.
Shirley and Jack were able to move into their newly constructed home near Nassau in the Bahamas; otherwise, no one else has changed their address. We will likely see several changes of address of our clan in this year ahead. Sheryl and Gary want to move back to Charleston; we expect to build us a new house overlooking the brook and upper pond. Len and Donna have bought land to build a new house, Jay and Kim would like to move from Dover and Mike and Debbie will likely be moving to the DC area as soon as David graduates from high school.
Last June Caroline graduated at the top of her high school class and is now a ROTC freshman at Cornell. Next June we have a big problem: we have three grandchildren graduating: Mike's son, David, graduates from Portsmouth, NH, Sharon's son, Christopher, graduates from Lamoille Valley High School, and Len's daughter, Emily, graduates from UCA in Newport. We don't have the times and dates yet, but it will be a challenge to get to all of them. We hope to do it though, even if we have to have a friend fly us to Portsmouth, NH.
We both are still very active in state, county and town politics. Our county has the reputation of turning out the greatest percentage of Republican votes of any county in Vermont. It has taken a lot of work to make this so. We still have "town meetings" to do the town's business. This is the purest form of democracy. Don is the town moderator, a job which he enjoys immensely. This last July we celebrated our town bicentennial. We had a parade and all kinds of activities. We had a "then and now" float. It was two scenes, and 1803 (log cabin) and 2003 modern living room. Each had a family dressed for the times and reading the Bible. The theme was "The Bible, a book for all ages." For pictures and more information click here.
Update on family genealogy: Don's great great grandmother and her mother both had the given name Peace, Peace Chase Sprague (1746-1811) and her daughter, Peace Sprague Mandeville (1787-1896). Peace Sprague was the 21st child of Revolutionary War Colonel David and wife, Peace (Chase) Sprague. She was born and grew up near the site of the Battle of Bennington where her father, Col. David Sprague (1731-1821), had his farm and was no doubt involved with Ethan Allen and the Green Mountain Boys. He was a devout Baptist and his wife's family were Quakers. Col. David Sprague married twice and all 21 of his children grew up and married and numbered 420 descendants before his death in 1821. His father, Elder David Sprague, was a "Great Awakening" Baptist minister in Rhode Island, called under the preaching of the great English evangelist, John Whitfield.
Elder David's grandfather was William Sprague. He was the first our our ancestors to come to America on September 7, 1628. He came from England with Captain John Endicott on a very small sailing ship, the Abigail. Endicott was the founder, the first governor and the first to establish (October, 1628) a settlement in Massachusetts. William and his two brothers wintered in tents, befriended the Indians; and, in the spring of 1629, they established the second settlement in Massachusetts which they named Charlestown. Charlestown is now a major part of the greater Boston area. William's father's home (Edward Sprague) still exists in Upway England. Edward Sprague (born about 1570, died about 1614) was a fuller by trade, and his home is now a bed and breakfast. We sure would like to visit there.
There is so much more to be said, but we will sum it up by wishing you all a wonderful Christmas season with your many friends and family. May our Lord, the Christ of Christmas, bless you real good. Pray that the "Prince of Peace," Jesus, and His people called Christians, will prevail in spreading the peace that is beyond understanding throughout the World.
Our daily prayer is, "Please Lord, pour out your Spirit on your children and help us to be strong under siege, to prevail in battle and be kind and compassionate in victory. God bless us everyone."
Beulah and Don Griffes
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March 27, 2003
Dear Family,
We are in Michigan again; this time to try to help Don's cousin whose house burned. The house was damaged, especially smoke damage. She wants to sell the house and so we have been trying to help her, but she is very difficult to work with. We were here in Michigan a month ago and took Don's aunt to Vermont with us. She stayed with us for four weeks and we brought her back to Michigan last Tuesday.
Raymond, it sounds as though you have a good business selling books, and without much overhead. Margaret, I hope the Procrit is helping you.
Lilla, you talk about the weather in Vermont this winter. It started snowing in October and there has been snow on the ground from then until now. We didn't even have a thaw in January. So much for global warming!
Yes, Nita, life sure is full of changes and some changes are hard to understand. We will understand when we see the complete picture in heaven. But for now it is difficult. We love you and are praying for you. Yes, you are blessed to have Irene to help you. We are praying that the medicine to help the saliva problem will be available to you soon.
Lois, you will be heading back to Vermont soon. Dawnita knows exactly when you are coming back and she announced it in church Sunday. She sure looks forward to your return, as we all do.
Ruth, it doesn't look as though we will get to see you on this Michigan trip. We will miss that. We need to get back to Vermont for several reasons. One reason is because I have to get back to the business and send out the monthly statements, since April is next week. We came through the states instead of Canada. We thought it might be difficult at customs because of the war. The last time we entered Michigan from Canada there were 400 trucks lined up waiting to go through customs. Another reason we have to get to Vermont is because I am having cataract surgery in April or May. Also, I want to get back so Don can continue work on remodeling our kitchen.
Dixie, your big family keeps you busy and you seem t enjoy it. I hope your daughter, Sherry, gets help and the procedure is successful. The Pumpkin Patch sounds like a lot of fun for kids and maybe for adults too.
Clayton and Gerry, your family has had their share of medical problems. Glad you are on the mend. We enjoyed the picture of Ron and his wife. She is very attractive.
April 4, 2003
We are back in Vermont again! Yesterday was the funeral for Dale Davis who died Monday night. He was 88 years old. They had the funeral at the Congregational Church because they didn't think there would be room in our church. I think, because the funeral was on Thursday and the people had to work, there weren't as many people there and that there probably would have been room at our church. Alice Davis wanted the organ and piano played, so Audrey Frizzell played the organ and I played the piano. However, the piano was not in tune with the organ. Also, some keys were a little tinny sounding. Oh well, we did our best and there wasn't time to tune the piano. We just had our piano tuned at the Nazarene Church. It was tuned to match the organ. Henry tuned our piano last summer, but the heat had dried out the keys in the center of the piano and so it was out of tune with the organ.
While we were in Michigan, Sherm Allen, Sr. died. Both deaths were connected to our church because Sherm, Jr. goes to our church.
Dale Davis' funeral was our new minister's first funeral and he did very well. Our pastor is younger than our daughter, Sheryl. I'm at work, so I guess I had better do some work.
Love to all, Don & Beulah
by Bethany M. Dunbar
Reprinted from the Barton Chronicle, July 16, 2003
NEWPORT - If you want to know how to spell or pronounce the name of the state fish of Hawaii - the Humuhumunukunukapau'a fish - just ask 11-year old Joshua Griffes.
Josh has this and many other facts about Hawaii memorized. (It's also called the trigger fish.) He recently returned from that state as part of a trip sponsored by the Make-A-Wish Foundation. Josh and one of his sisters have cystic fibrosis, and a nurse at the Cystic Fibrosis Clinic at Fletcher Allen Health Care in Burlington submitted his name for the wish.
"My mom won a trip," explained Josh. "She just bought a can of pineapple at Shaw's."
Josh's mother, Donna Griffes, did not even realize she had entered until she got a call one day saying she had won. Her Shaw's card entered her automatically. At first she and her husband, Len, thought it was a scam. Luckily, though, they did not hang up the phone. It turned out she had won a trip for two. That meant their three children would not be able to go because the family could not afford to take them.
"We were mad," Josh said. But when his nurse, Jackie Schwartz, heard about it she rectified the situation.
Dorothy Morrill of Newark and Carolyn Pearley of Richford are volunteer wish granters for the foundation and worked on Josh's wish.
"This was my second wish," said Mrs. Morrill. She said the foundation grants wishes for children with life-threatening diseases, not necessarily terminal illnesses. Her responsibility was to do paperwork and to try to get associated donations. For Example, Dora's Taxi of St. Johnsbury donated a ride in a stretch limo for the family fro home to the airport and back.
The trip was everything Josh hoped it would be. They were gone from June 14 to June 23. Asked what his favorite part of the trip, Josh said he really could not decide. He liked everything. But his father said he thought the snorkeling in Hanauma Bay was the best. Before that, Josh was not much of a swimmer.
"I was afraid to put my face in," Josh said. But they had the gear and decided to give it a shot, and when Josh heard everybody ooohing and ahhing about the fish, he had to put hi face in the water.
"It took these tropical fish to motivate him," said his father, Len Griffes. He said they had learned that when one type of fish is hunting, it points its nose down. They saw one of these and followed it to see if it would "go vertical."
Other highlights included a submarine ride, a helicopter ride, and a visit to Pearl Harbor.
"I met a Pearl Harbor survivor. His name is Richard Fiske," Josh said.
Mr. Griffes had just watched a History Channel video about Pearl Harbor that included an interview with Mr. Fiske when someone spotted Josh's Make-A-Wish bade. The person asked if Dick Fiske was there, and Mr. Griffes thought to himself, where have I heard that name. When they met Mr. Fiske, they realized that he was the person on the video.
Mr. Fiske volunteers at the memorial. He was on the U.S.S. West Virginia when the Japanese bombed, and the bomb went down far into the boat before it exploded, which meant that he survived. Mr. Fiske has met the Japanese man who dropped the bomb, and Mr. Griffes said he is now a good friend of Mr. Fiske's.
"No, he's his best friend," corrected Josh.
On the submarine ride, Josh got to see sea turtles. They went 117 feet deep. On the helicopter ride, they got to see a volcano.
"We saw Diamondhead, which is a crater, which is extinct," he said. "We saw this island called Coconut Island, where Gilligan's Island was filmed." They also saw the valley where the movies Mighty Joe Young, Godzilla, and Jurassic Park were filmed.
They saw a 1,500-foot waterfall on their helicopter ride.
The family visited a huge living maze in the shape of a pineapple and learned a lot about how the fruit is grown.
"It takes 18 to 22 months to harvest one pineapple," Josh said. "A skilled worker can plant 10,000 plants in one day, and that's only one-third of an acre."
"I don't think I'll complain about the price of a pineapple," said Mrs. Griffes, after seeing what goes into growing one. Now she would not be afraid to buy a fresh one because she knows what to look for.
"The whole trip was an amazing experience," Mr. Griffes said. "Everybody should go there and visit once," he said. "We kind of went with zero expectations," he added. It made the place all the more impressive.
The state is well prepared for tourists and welcomes them. The island of Waikiki has about 12,000 to 13,000 residents and at any given moment there are about 20,000 tourists.
Most people around here could not afford to live there.
Your basic house costs $300,000," he said. "A gallon of milk is $6."
But the climate is amazing. It is almost always between 75 and 85 degrees during the day. The Griffes family was shocked to come back to hotter, more humid weather in Vermont.
The water is beautiful but the waves can be unsafe; an undertow can be extremely dangerous. They heard a story about a honeymooning couple who were sitting on the beach, far up away from the shore, and a giant wave came along and swept them away. The man was never found. Waves can be 30 feet tall in the winter. The day the Griffes family was at Waikiki, there were 350 to 375 rescues for surfers.
Mrs. Griffes teaches first grade at United Christian Academy, and Mr. Griffes is part owner of a sheet metal shop in Newport called Nevtec. Among other things, he makes range hoods for restaurants.
Although two of the Griffes children have cystic fibrosis, so far they have remained healthy.
At a recent checkup, Mr. Griffes said, "their lung function was excellent ...
"We're blessed. We really are. For a bad situation, it couldn't be any better."
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The Griffes family traveled to Hawaii in June thanks to a can of pineapple and the Make-A-Wish Foundation. In front, left to right, are Emily, Josh, and Becky Griffes. In back are Len and Donna Griffes and Dorothy Morrill. Photo by Bethany M. Dunbar Click on the thumbnail to enlarge the picture. Please be patient while it downloads. Click on your browser's "back" button to return to this page. |
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Sheryl and Gary Hosford's son, Cole William, just had a birthday! To attend his party, click here.
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August 19, 2002
Dear Family,
I am writing this in Canada as we are on our way back to Vermont from Michigan. We left Vermont a week ago yesterday. We went to Jackson, Michigan to finish up helping Don's Aunt Jo with the remodeling project. We were only in Jackson three days this time. Then we went on to Ludington, Michigan, which is on the west side of Michigan on Lake Michigan, to another of Don's aunts. Her husband died a year ago and he used to fish a lot, so we took some fresh caught Vermont fish to her because she loves trout. Her birthday was August 18, the same as Jonathan (Jay,) so this was her birthday present.
After we left Ludington, we went to Buckley, Michigan where there was an "Old Engine Show" which was much more than old engines. There were over a thousand old engines and tractors, 500 flea market booths, and lots of music (gospel, country, and old favorites). We went to the old engine show because we had friends there. Once couple were my neighbors when I lived in Jackson who introduced Don and I, and the other couple were the ones we had a double wedding with. They each had an RV. There were several thousand recreational vehicles there. We stayed one night with them.
Don really enjoyed looking at all the old tractors. He saw several old tractors that he used to use on the farm in Michigan. He had been wanting to go to the steam thrashers convention in Rollog, Minnesota, so now he doesn't have to go. He sees RFDTV where they feature old tractors and advertise these shows.
I mentioned they had lots of music at the show. The music consists of people with music ability that gather in a jam session and play. Dick or a friend plays a bass fiddle, and Clair plays the harmonica. They have banjos, guitars, dulcimers, and accordions. They play for hours and the music is very enjoyable. At the end of the concert some people were still there and one of the dulcimer players, some singles, and a couple of guitars, and a couple of harmonicas (one of them was Don) played a couple more hours until midnight.
From Buckley we went to Ruth and Henry's. We stayed overnight and went to church Sunday morning. After a pot luck dinner at the church, we left for Vermont. We enjoyed Ruth and Henry's hospitality and enjoyed a delicious New England boiled dinner. Don played a special on his harmonica at church. Henry has lost quite a lot of weight and looks real good. Ruth is doing well in spite of her almost 89 years.
Sheryl and Gary had their fourth child on July 12th. They now have two girls and two boys. The baby's name is Cole William. Cole is Gary's mother's middle name. Calvin is only 18 months old, so they definitely have their hands full. It sounds as though everyone had a good time at the May reunion. We hated to miss seeing everyone, but we had a scheduled Michigan trip. We also missed the Brighton High School reunion. We had a political dinner that night. Our Republican candidate for governor (Jim Douglas) was there; we hope he gets elected. He is the state treasurer now and has been Secretary of State before that. He has done well for Vermont as treasurer giving Vermont a very high bond rating. Dixie, I hope your daughter gets to be governor. Who is governor now? I believe Tommy Thompson was until Bush put him in his cabinet.
We have a new pastor at church. He is younger than our youngest daughter, Sheryl. His wife is from the Malden, Massachusetts Nazarene Church. Lois knows her and her mother. I knew her mother when she was a teenager.
We have a funeral to go to in a couple of days, Sharon's sister-in-law. JC's sister had an aneurysm and died suddenly. She was only in her late 50s. Her name is Carolyn Hover and she had an antique business in a big barn just outside Cambridge, Vermont.
Boy, am I embarrassed to have kept this letter for so long. After we got home from Michigan, there was so much to do and catch up on, I put this letter out of sight and out of mind, I think. We had lots of vegetables in the garden to take care of. I think we are about done with them. I hope.
We are disappointed and saddened by the doctors' assessment of Nita's problem. The doctor in Burlington diagnosed it as Lou Gehrig's disease. We are praying for her and God can heal her.
We are doing some remodeling at our house. We started with the kitchen, but haven't finished it yet. Don decided he'd better do needed outside work while the weather is good. He has new siding on the back of the house. That wasn't completed when we built the post office. Yesterday I painted attic windows. There is always plenty to do.
I had better close now and get this bird on its way.
Love, Don & Beulah
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Times sure have changed. In 1970 when we moved from Michigan we were only 39 and now we are in our seventies. Back then, we had only one married daughter and one grandson, 8 descendants then and 39 now. God has again abundantly blessed the VT Family Griffes in 2002. Last July, daughter Sheryl and husband Gary blessed us with another grandson, Cole William Hosford, their 4th child, our 39th descendant He was dedicated to the Lord on December 8th as were their other three previously. Our quiver is wonderfully full; the Lord has built and blessed our house abundantly (Psalms 127). |
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Shirley and Jack are retired and living in the Bahamas. Shirley's son, Philip, his wife, Nichole, and daughters, Sidney, Devin, and Peyton, live in PA. Her daughter, Emily, and husband Rich, daughter Morgan, and son Keegan, live in Jackson, MI. They are all busy with making a living and raising their families. |
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Mike is up to his ears in "Homeland Security" at the Pentagon. He gets home to Debbie and the kids every two or three weeks. James is in College. Caroline is a senior and David is a sophomore in Portsmouth High School. Debbie is still a super Mary-Kay distributor as well as military wife and mother. |